The 8th grade advisors, Kim Parks and Jennifer Lettieri, recently led a reflection and discussion around the Middle School Agreements that the students created while on the Advance. The middle school team uses these agreements for all shared community spaces so students and teachers know the expected behaviors and guidelines when at school.
Using the Middle School Agreements as a starting point, Kim and Jennifer wanted the eighth graders to have an anonymous place to share what they need from their classmates to feel safe, seen and heard. They asked the eighth graders to review the agreements and write down what they need from others and what they will continue to work on themselves.
After students wrote their responses on cards, they placed them in a box. During the next advisory class, Kim read what the students needed from their classmates out loud to the group, pausing for students to comment. Students were given three ways to respond to these anonymous messages or the discussion. They could:
- Offer wisdom or advice.
- Clarify a message or comment that was read out loud.
- Offer empathy or appreciation for something they heard in the discussion.
The discussion was profound and meaningful. Some students spoke up and clarified what they needed from the group and owned what they wrote. Other students offered kind words of apology or agreed out loud with a comment that was read.
At Saklan, we aim for each student to ask for what they need so that every class can function positively and respectfully. Activities such as this help model for the students, and give them the language, to do so. Additionally, this activity helped the eighth graders to realize that their behavior and comments impact the class dynamics and create a domino effect. When one person talks out of turn or says a joke, then another person will, and another. Jennifer showed the students this video about the domino effect. The powerful visuals in the video helped students remember how powerful their words and actions can be.




































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